—tarae45651eb91 “I don’t imagine myself doing what I did ever again. I was not in the right state of mind when it happened, and it sometimes makes my skin crawl just thinking about what I did. Every relationship is different.” —mhlpirate —38, Utah —27, Colorado —34, Illinois —34, Canada “He’s since deleted all the conversations, pledged to never do it again, and we are starting couples therapy. He is also seeking individual therapy on his own. I don’t know if it’ll be enough. I’ve been cheated on before and swore it was a hard boundary for me. I want to forgive him but don’t know how.” —frodofreaklotr —ninabell1206 —31, New England